Fiction… Wisdom for Living

Benefits of Reading Fiction

Research shows that regularly reading fiction brings tremendous benefit. Those include…

  • Improved vocabulary
  • Reduced loneliness
  • Better understanding of self
  • Learning factual information
  • Increased brain activity
  • Slower memory decline
  • Increased empathy
  • Better listening skills
  • Increased focus & concentration
  • Improved communication skills

If those benefits aren’t enough to convince someone about the power of reading fiction, there’s more. And this more connects with our faith walk as Christians in an interesting way.

Wisdom for Living

“The best stories and novels contain wisdom for living that cannot be captured in any other way.” (Why Read Fiction?)

Fiction helps us see human nature in ways we sometimes fail to through history, nonfiction reading and even through our own observations and experiences. Maybe that’s because fiction helps us see truth from a safe distance. Or, maybe it’s because fiction isn’t really 100% made up anyway.

Look closely, and you’ll realize that the best stories are based on layers of reality within made up elements. For example…

Good fiction helps us view the complex layers of human nature in ways that benefit us psychologically and socially. Some of those benefits are obvious and applicable to all, and some are individualized. And some are so painful that we’ll only hear them through the lens of the fictitious.

Fiction in Scripture

Consider that Jesus made up stories — fiction — for these very reasons.

In telling these stories, Jesus got at some tough cultural and socially taboo issues. He addressed what might not have been otherwise received by direct teaching.

What are the issues and lessons in the stories Jesus used? Let me encourage you to investigate those familiar stories once again to find out. Only this time, push yourself to go a bit deeper. To help you get started, check out how GotQuestions.org discussed each of these stories.

Not Just for Entertainment

I love to read fiction, and much of my motivation is purely for entertainment and relaxation. At the same time, I’m mostly drawn to stories with depth because of the benefits they bring to my personal growth.

When I realized that Jesus used stories with layered meaning and understanding as a tool in much the same way that happens in the books I most like to read, my appreciation of and draw toward good fiction only grew.

I encourage you to find good fiction that stimulates you in ways beyond entertainment and relaxation. In addition to the books listed above, here are some of my other very favorite works of fiction to help you get started.

Sunday Reflections: Are You Listening?

NOTE: I am making a slight format change with Struggle to Victory. “How to…” posts will now be on Mondays, and “Sunday Reflections” will now be on Wednesdays. This change will allow more time for me to reflect on Sundays and to even attempt some application before writing the post. I believe this will make the posts – and me – better.

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When I was about 13, I remember distinctly telling my mom when she tried to give me advice, “Let me make my own mistakes.” She wanted to prevent me making some of the mistakes she made, and I failed to listen. This regret represents a time in my life when I was not teachable. Fortunately, I have since become more open to learning from the mistakes of others.

While I still am not a great listener and am continually working on my listening skills, I have improved since those foolish teenage years. Because listening has never come easily for me, I feel compelled to ask myself, “Why is listening such a struggle?”

In answering this question, I discovered that I do not stand alone in this struggle. Here are some reasons why listening might be a struggle:

  1. You think you already know what you need to know.
  2. You have too much going on in your head already and can’t take in more information.
  3. You’re judging what a person is saying.
  4. You’ve already come up with a solution for the person talking
  5. You’re relating everything to yourself.
  6. You’re impatient.
  7. You’re afraid of the silence that might happen if you wait to formulate a response.
  8. You’ve got a “one-up” story you just have to tell.
  9. You want to impress others, maybe improve how intelligent you are.
  10. You have to be right, and why listen since the person talking is already wrong.
  11. You’re uncomfortable with what others are saying.
  12. You’re tired or hungry or both and just can’t focus.

Some of these reasons for not listening may hit home with you, while some may not apply at all. For me, I am ashamed to admit that all of them have been a struggle at some point. Getting outside of what’s going on in our lives and truly focusing on others is a struggle that I think most people, perhaps everyone, has.

Over the years, I have become a better listener, though still not a great one. I’ve come to realize that every person’s words have value. Christ gives tremendous value to every person, and listening is one way I can embrace that value (Psalm 139:13-16).

I’ve also learned that even if someone is talking a lot about nothing, they may be expressing unfulfilled needs for love and acceptance. At least, that’s often what’s going on with me when I’m talking.

As a result of this tough look at my own listening skills, the following are the approaches I am taking to become a better listener.

  1. Do what I can to free my mind to listen to others.
  2. Listen better at home with my family.
  3. Understand why listening is important.
  4. Listen for what I can learn from others.
  5. Avoid being tired, hungry and stressed when I need to listen.

Listening seems counter-cultural in a society that touts instant gratification, speaking up for yourself, and standing up for your needs, wants and desires. Yet, I am realizing more and more that Jesus’ life exemplifies living counter-culturally, that the way of the Father is often not the way of culture. That I must choose the narrow way (Matthew 7:13).

Perhaps if we learn How to… Cultivate Creativity we can constructively express our emotions leaving room mentally to truly listen. Perhaps if we truly understand that No Man is An Island, we can better practice the tenants of scripture that exhort the importance of truly hearing what others are saying. In other words, as we find ways to learn and grow as individuals, the body as a whole becomes stronger.

As we move from just knowing that listening is important to God to living His instructions out for listening (James 1:19) in our attitudes, actions and words, we further develop the deep roots and cohesiveness that Christ prayed for His body to have (John 17:20-26).

DISCUSSION: What struggles have you personally experienced with listening?

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