Quiet and Balanced
“Yet we urge you, brothers and sisters… to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent upon anybody.” (1 Thessalonians 4:10-12)
The Aramaic Bible in Plain English translation deepens our application of this advice as we consider our own forward growth.
“And that you would be diligent, peaceable and occupied with your business, working with your hands just as we commanded you.” (1 Thessalonians 4:12)
This version gives three descriptors to consider as we pursue a quiet life. The Aramaic version of this verse also helps dial in a bit on the inner attitude that drives Paul’s directive.
First, a few definitions:
- Diligent — constant in effort
- Peaceable — inclined to avoid strife; not argumentative or hostile
- Occupied — filled up; engaged mind, attention and energy
If we combine these definitions, we come up with a comprehensive view of the attitude we’re seeking when we think of a “quiet life” in the sense that Paul is encouraging it.
Make a constant effort to avoid arguing and hostility and to engage your mind, attention, and energy in the work you’ve been given to do.
What does this constant effort look like in a practical way? In other words, how can we live quiet lives by being diligent, peaceable, and occupied?
- Do your part to get along with others. You can only control and change yourself. (Romans 12:18)
- Focus on the work God gives you. When you do, you’ll have a lot less time to criticize others. You’ll also be much more productive this way. (Romans 12)
- Let grace carry you through your mistakes. When you make mistakes, learn from them, forgive yourself, and move forward in the grace of God. (1 Peter 1:13)
- Verbalize thankfulness in your victories. Realize that God does work good for those who love him, so give him the credit for working good in your life. (Romans 8:28)
- Pursue a quiet life in increasing measure. Refuse to let the chaos of the world infiltrate your attitude. Instead, secure your spirit in the peace that passes all understanding but that can also draw others to Christ. (Philippians 4:7)
When our energies focus in these ways, we’ll find our lives increasingly productive and effective. In addition, we’ll discover that the work we’ve been given — loving others and living to please God (1 Thessalonians 4:1-11) — happens through the living of quiet lives in our own unique ways.