Love/Hate Relationship with Technology
I’m addicted to technology. I waste time with it, and I’m easily distracted by it. Sometimes, I actually use it to keep from having to acknowledge and interact with others. I hate that it’s so natural for my kids, even part of the way they think and view life and can’t imagine life without it. I especially hate how it interrupts and prevents face-to-face conversations.
At the same time, technology gives me a place and audience for writing that I would not otherwise have. It allows for friendships, encouragement, knowledge, and support that would not otherwise happen because of geography. It provides ease of research and in fact helped me tremendously in my journey to healing.
Then, there’s GPS, which is as much a necessity as gas in my car. Technology also helps my husband and I connect when he travels since his trips allow for little free time even for phone calls. Technology also provides a way to connect with my boys that fits how they think and operate.
Some days I want to quit technology. Then I remember the days of waiting for my dial-up connection and having the phone unavailable while on the Internet, and I realize how far technology has come in such a short period of time.
I truly hate technology when I’m talking to a friend, and she stops mid-conversation to answer a text. After the frustration subsides, I realize the problem is my friend’s inability to focus on what’s in front of her more than it is about the technology.
Technology exists as a necessity in my life that I love for so many reasons and that I hate for as many reasons. With that, I am conflicted over how I want technology to live and breathe as I live and breathe.
Finding Balance with Technology
How we used technology 10 years ago differs greatly from how we use it today. As those developing technology continue showing us what we didn’t know we needed and wanted, how we use technology will continue evolving. The ever-changing nature of technology is a fixed reality.
The ever-changing nature of technology also adds frustration through the impossibility of keeping up with the flow of information as well as with the latest and greatest. With this comes a choice of either continually struggling to keep up or finding balance, something that exists as uniquely as our fingerprints.
Finding balance with technology use involves considering:
- Is technology my tool, or am I its slave?
- Do I always assume new technology is always better?
- Do I consider that my kids watch and imitate how I use technology?
- Do I understand the relevance of technology not just in my life but in the future for my kids?
- Can I find a healthy balance and/or rhythm by controlling my habits?
- Are there boundaries in place in my life where technology is concerned or is it an uncontrolled addiction?
- Does technology exist as a distraction and a way to avoid being uncomfortable?
- What does God think about how we should live with and use technology?
These are the dominate thoughts on my mind as I consider how technology currently exists and how I want it to exist in my life. Consider taking time to look at the struggles and victories you’re having with technology and asking God to direct you in his will as you move forward.