Hope in Aging

Revisiting Aging

Maybe it’s because middle age is bearing down. Maybe it’s because my youngest is now a senior in high school. Perhaps the struggles of my aging parents are the reason. Or, maybe it’s simply the increase in body aches and inflexible muscles. Could also be my going back to school and wondering if it’s crazy to do so at my age. Probably, it’s all of these combined.

Whatever the reason on any given day, aging and the fleetingness of time has become more of a focus for me. I can easily get overwhelmed and even depressed about it. To prevent that, and further, to embrace what lies before me in the second half of my life, I turn to what the Bible says about aging and time and purpose.

It’s a topic I revisit more frequently with every passing year. Fortunately, the Bible offers much in the way of wisdom about aging. In my revisiting, then, I find tremendous peace.

Startling Aging Facts

Statistics tell me that a lot of people struggle with aging:

  • The highest suicide rate is among adults ages 45-54.
  • The second highest is adults over 85.
  • Younger groups have consistently lower rates.

Even worse, they show that many give up on that struggle. They simply lose hope.

The Bible and Aging

Fortunately, the Bible offers a lot of hope for those at any stage in this struggle.

“Gray hair is a crown of splendor; it is attained in the way of righteousness.” (Proverbs 16:31)

“Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding?” (Job 12:12)

“Praise the Lord, my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name. Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits — who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desire with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.” (Psalm 103:5)

“Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” (2 Corinthians 4:16)

These verses remind me that, as a Christian, there is honor and blessing in growing old. They tell me that while my body may be weakening, I am growing in wisdom and my spirit is being renewed every day.

God, through his word, focuses me on hope. He focuses me on Him.

“But the godly will flourish like palm trees and grow strong like the cedars of Lebanon. For they are transplanted into the Lord’s own house. They flourish in the courts of our God. Even in old age they will still produce fruit; they will remain vital and green. They will declare, ‘The Lord is just! He is my rock! There is nothing but goodness in him.’” (Psalm 92:12-15)

Looking Ahead

There are circumstances beyond our control that contribute to decline as we age. Physical decline and possibly even mental decline will happen. Spiritual decline doesn’t have to happen though.

Doing what I can to age gracefully in the temporary dwelling of my human body, I grasp what God’s word says about how he wants me to flourish in old age. I hold on to the fact that my spirit will live on into eternity and never grow old.

4 thoughts on “Hope in Aging

  1. Middle age bearing down? You poor spring chicken! LOL At 65 I am definitely becoming more and more aware of time. Time lost. Time left. Time to do what I need and want to get done. Where is Doc's Time Machine when I need it? I applaud you Kari for going back to school. I had given some thought to it in my 40s and then my 50s but now now. I don't think I could remember anything whatsoever! I have found though my outlook determines my footprint. I rejoice that I'm still alive and kicking and God can still use me.

    • Funny you should mention a time machine. My oldest son and I have been watching time travel movies lately. I'm thankful that my classes are mostly writing and no tests. Though, I did have to study for the GRE. That was hard. Anyway, challenge yourself, my friend. You are capable of more thank you think. We all are.

  2. Hello Kari, been a while since I come by, life has got in my way a lot this last year. heart bypass surgery then a knee replacement. I turned 70 when I was still in the hospital and 71 not too long after my knee surgery so I know a few things about aging. One, it's not pretty on the outside, two I have lost much energy, three, I would turn back to 51 or even 61 in a heart beat. What is nice about aging is there is a calmness about life, I flow better with it, don't try to fight against the grain. And there is some wisdom that comes from having a lot of life experiences. Of course wisdom is a choice…I can ask for it or think I know everything. One must stay teachable no matter the age.

    Recently I got one of those mirrors that one side is normal and the other side makes things bigger. If one is fearing aging I advice them not to get one. I always look older in the mirror then in my mind. Good post on aging…one can be content in it, well most of the time.

    • Wow, Betty! You sure have been through a lot this past year. I'm so glad you are on the mend now. Thank you for your testimony about aging. I find comfort knowing that even though the physical deterioration can be tough, wisdom grows if we choose for it to happen. Good to hear from you!

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