No Man Is an Island
No man is an island,
Entire of itself.
Each piece is a piece of the continent,
A part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea,
Europe is the less.
As well as if a promontory were.
As well as if a manor or thine own
Or of thine friends were.
Each man’s death diminishes me,
For I am involved in mankind.
Therefore, send not to know
For whom the bell tolls,
It tolls for thee.
John Donne wrote the poem “For Whom the Bell Tolls” in 1624, and it inspired a famous book (Hemingway’s “For Whom the Bell Tolls”) which then inspired multiple songs.
The poem also well illustrates Luke’s words in Acts 2:42-47 where he stresses the importance of connection. Once becoming a believer, an individual joined with other believers and…
“…devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, sharing the in the Lord’s Supper and in prayer.”
Being united by faith in Christ, the early church focused on connections to strengthen and encourage one another. Connection was crucial to the survival of the church in its infancy.
Connecting with a body of believers still remains crucial in our challenging culture today. Yet the onus lies with the individual to connect and be connectible. But how does one cultivate healthy connectivity?
- Connect to God. Without this connection, all other connections are futile. Begin with the basics of consistent Bible study, fellowship, and prayer as the individuals in the early church did. Add to that foundation as led by the Holy Spirit.
- Be connectable. Make time in your schedule for others. Let the Holy Spirit work in you and give you an attitude that draws instead of pushes others away. Realize you can’t change others and focus on the one person you can change (i.e., yourself).
- Develop broad shoulders. No one is perfect. People will say and do stupid things. Develop Broad Shoulders, then find ways to support and encourage through imperfection to create connection.
- Be willing to share. While sharing possessions certainly fits here (an example set by those Timothy spoke about in Acts), the point of sharing burdens must also be made (Galatians 6:2). Some burdens are obvious. Others not. Allowing someone to bear your burden may mean being brave enough to share it. Of course, this is a lot easier when healthy connections already exist.
- Submit to the process. Connecting exists as an ongoing process. Making good choices to cultivate the process is crucial as each individual does his/her part by connecting to God, being connectable, developing broad shoulders, and being willing to share.
Donne’s poem not only emphasizes the idea that no person exists to live life as a lonely island, it furthers the point by saying that “each man’s death diminishes me.” In other words, each person brings something unique to the body and has a “plan and a purpose” (Jeremiah 29:11). The body functions most effectively and with greater efficiency with all its parts connected and healthy.